You have been carrying this long enough.
A 90-minute live space to finally put some of it down.
25 people. Your words. No performance required.
"I know I need to stop carrying all of this. But I don't know where to start."
Over 13,000 comments from people who follow our work. One question appeared more than any other, not always in those exact words, but always the same weight: "How do I put it down?"
The Unloading was built to answer that question.
If any of this sounds familiar...
You carry things other people don't know about.
You are the strong one, which means there's nobody to be strong for you.
You have tried to put it into words and couldn't find them.
You don't want to burden the people you love.
You have been managing. But managing isn't the same as being okay.
The Journey of The Unloading
Step 1: The Live Unloading (90 Minutes)
We open the space on Zoom. You are invited to share, in writing, in your own words, in your own time, what you have been carrying. Russell reads the room, finds the threads, and reflects back what he sees.
Step 2: The Shared Space (4 Weeks)
After the session, you join a private space with the same group. Russell and Lisa are present throughout, responding, reflecting, holding. This is not a passive follow-up. It is four weeks of being genuinely held and supported.
Step 3: The Group Journey Summary
At the close of the four weeks, you receive a document that captures our time together, the themes that emerged and the arc from where we started to where we landed. It's a record of what happens when people who carry things quietly finally feel heard and valued.
Step 4: Your Continuing Journey
When the four weeks close, you are welcomed into Here Together, a wider community of people like you (if you are not already a member). The private space closes, and the connection continues.
What happens in the room
This is a live, facilitated space designed to offer something many people rarely experience: the opportunity to share something true and be witnessed, alongside others who understand.
There is no expectation to perform, explain, or have the right words. You are invited to arrive exactly as you are.
You'll be invited to write in the chat, in your own time, in your own words. Russell reads what is in the room, finds the patterns, and reflects them back anonymously. Only Russell and Lisa see what you write.
This is not a space for fixing or solving. It is a space for being heard and seen.
Most people leave the room feeling something they didn't expect: lighter.
Why This Works
Realising for the first time that you are not alone in your distress moves you out of isolation, and that shift alone is profoundly healing.
Intense emotions experienced together reinforce bonds, even between strangers. When others truly witness what you carry, you stop carrying it quite so heavily and alone.
Neuroimaging research shows that sharing emotional experiences buffers the impact of negative feelings and enhances relief. This isn't just comforting, it's biological.
Is this right for you?
What it IS
- Four weeks together
- A 90-minute live session
- A place to share a truth and be heard
- A space where you don't have to perform being okay
- Held by Russell & Lisa
- The experience of being witnessed
- The relief of being heard without being fixed
What it IS NOT
- This is NOT therapy or coaching
- Not a workshop with slides
- Not a webinar or masterclass
- Not individual advice-giving
- No "magic pills" or 10-step plans
Held by Russell & Lisa
Russell Taylor: I lead each session and remain present throughout the four weeks. I have spent years holding space for people who carry things quietly, in boardrooms, in coaching rooms, and now here. My job is to make the room safe enough that you can say something true, and to make sure you feel heard when you do.
Lisa Taylor: I am in the room holding the space alongside Russell. I welcome you as you arrive, I watch the chat, and I keep the community space warm and alive. My presence ensures no one gets lost. You will feel me there even if we never speak directly.
A Full Month of Being Witnessed
The Unloading doesn't end when the session does. The 90 minutes opens the door, the four weeks is where you walk through it, alongside the same people who were in the room with you and who understand.
4 Weeks of Shared Presence
The private space stays open for four weeks after the session, exclusive to the 25 people who were in the room with you. This isn't for advice or fixing. It's a place to stay connected, to share what you didn't say in the room, and to feel the weight lift a little more.
The Group Journey Summary
At the close of the four weeks, I create a document that captures the arc of our time together. Where we started. What emerged. Where we landed. It honours what happened in the room and gives you something real to carry forward.
A Space for Quiet Presence
We don't use noisy social media groups. We use a private, dedicated platform called Here Together. It is a sanctuary designed for honest sharing and quiet listening.
One month of not carrying it alone.
The Unloading is Coming Shortly
Join the waitlist and we'll let you know when we open the next session.
- β Live 90-Min Session
- β 4-Week Private Space
- β The Group Journey Summary
- β Transition to Here Together Community
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